养猫的小提莫晚安在孤独中也有幸福感比如落
2024年11月14日 风云资讯
对孤独的接受能力是逐年递增的，从独自用餐到独自看电影再到独自旅行，你会发现很多事情并不是非要有人陪着才能做，接着你会开始享受这种无人打扰的感觉。
如果你正在因为孤独而感到困扰，不必担忧，这只是一个在学着和自我相处的过程，总有一天你会从中得到更多别的乐趣。
The ability to accept loneliness is increasing year by year. From dining alone to watching movies alone to traveling alone, you will find that many things don't have to be accompanied, and then you will begin to enjoy the feeling of being undisturbed.
If you are troubled by loneliness, don't worry. It's just a process of learning to get along with yourself. One day you will get more fun.
是这样的：
一个人一个活法反正就这几十年，你不要去管别人怎么样，外面天气怎么样，那是他的事，你自己心里啊，一定要有太阳。
That's true:
A person has a way of living. Anyway, for the past few decades, you don't care about others and the weather outside. It's his business. You must have the sun in your heart.
想来想去还是觉得，这个世界上不能互相理解的人和事太多了。
其实没什么必要，不是非要踏入同一条河流，都有自己的人生需要过，相比较起来，对于每个人来说，自己才是最重要的。
所以呢，就都放过彼此吧，放轻松，像漫游尘世。
After thinking about it, I still feel that there are too many people and things in the world that can't understand each other.
In fact, there is no need. We don't have to step into the same river. We all have our own needs in life. In comparison, we are the most important for everyone.
So, let each other go, relax, like roaming the world.
在孤独中也有幸福感，比如落日，雪景，音乐，小猫咪。
我的意思是，一个人也可以拥有许多低成本的美好。这种美好很容易令人产生满足感，并且不基于任何特殊因素。
孤独感能够激发出内心深处深刻且真实的东西，能够让我们更了解自己内心的真实情况，到底怎样的生活方式是适合我的，蓝裤子还是花裤子，薯角还是薯条。
There is also happiness in solitude, such as sunset, snow scenery, music, kitten.
I mean, one can also have many beautiful things at low cost. This kind of beauty is easy to be satisfied and is not based on any special factors.
Loneliness can inspire deep and real things in our hearts, and enable us to better understand the real situation in our hearts. What kind of lifestyle is suitable for me, blue pants or flower pants, potato horns or French fries.
人最大的内耗，便是想要逃离孤独感，每日沉浸于不适合自己的社交圈子中，强行给自己上发条。
但其实，一个人并不孤独，想要逃离这种状态才孤独。
People's biggest internal friction is to escape loneliness, immerse themselves in social circles that are not suitable for them every day, and force themselves to wind up.
But in fact, a person is not alone. He is only lonely if he wants to escape from this state.
我其实是个内心贫瘠的人，只是向往温暖的自由。
与其说孤独，我更愿意将自己比作被丢弃的小猫。害怕突如其来的幸福，也害怕某一天的不告而别。
因为被丢弃过，所以慈悲心泛滥，所以好像自始至终不敢努力地去接受别人的爱，会怀疑所有的温暖，也会推开所有热气腾腾的拥抱。
不为什么，只是害怕，害怕再一次被丢弃。
In fact, I am a poor person in my heart, just yearning for warm freedom.
Rather than being lonely, I prefer to compare myself to a discarded kitten. Afraid of sudden happiness, but also afraid of leaving without saying goodbye one day.
Because they have been discarded, their compassion overflows. It seems that they dare not try hard to accept the love of others from beginning to end. They will doubt all the warmth and push away all the steaming hugs.
Not why, just afraid, afraid to be discarded again.
但没关系的，我们都会在某个夜里，看巨石滚落，会怀疑自己是否过得太差劲，都会在一瞬间感到孤独，被生活打击。
但这些并不能妨碍我们某一天，看见花开，看见街边热气笼笼的小笼包，看见菜市场一张皲裂的手再数着褶皱的零钱，细碎生活里渺小的爱，会让我们再一次内心感动，再一次热爱生活。
But it doesn't matter. We will all watch the boulders roll down one night, doubt whether we are too bad, and feel lonely and hit by life in an instant.
But these can not prevent us from one day, seeing the flowers bloom, seeing the small steamed buns on the street, seeing a chapped hand in the vegetable market counting the wrinkled change, and breaking down the little love in life, will make us moved and love life again.
我只愿意和让我感到舒服的人在一起，不想委屈自己但又强硬不起来，所以时常选择逃避。
也没什么不好的，该解决的问题会去好好解决，但很多无解的难题逃避也不算太可耻。
I only want to be with people who make me feel comfortable. I don't want to aggrieve myself, but I can't be tough, so I often choose to escape.
There's nothing bad. The problems that should be solved will be solved well, but it's not too shameful to escape many unsolved problems.
其实，在没有喜欢任何的人的时候，往往是你过得最轻松快乐的时候。
尽管有时候会觉得孤独了点，除此之外，你所有的情绪都只为自己，所有的时间也都是自己的。
In fact, when you don't like anyone, you often have the most relaxed and happy time.
Although sometimes you feel a little lonely, in addition, all your emotions are only for yourself, and all your time is your own.
【画师：yokotanji】